Nov 082008
 

I normally write about Penn State football on Saturdays. And while I’ll tune into the 3:30 game against Iowa and cheer on our Nittany Lions, it’s not what I feel deserves my blog-attention this morning. As FireDad and I watched the late night news last night, we learned that Heather Pick, Columbus 10TV news anchor, lost her battle with breast cancer yesterday.

I didn’t ever get to meet Heather Pick but I felt especially touched by her public battle when Mom was diagnosed last year. Heather was a beautiful and courageous woman who shared her fight against cancer in a way that wasn’t scary. She changed her wigs on set to let others know about programs available and, in the process, showed us that a bald head is still just as beautiful. She fought. She fought hard. And FireDad and I were both shocked to hear that she lost the battle.

But the video tribute left us with some wise words.

“Don’t wait. Give someone an unexpected gift just because you appreciate them. Take your loved ones to a cherished community treasure or try something completely new.”

-Heather Pick, 1970-2008

As a family that has been touched by breast cancer, I can tell you that is wise advice. But, even still, it’s something that gets lost by those of us who are healthy and just dealing with the day-to-day busy lives that we live. And so, today, do something with your children that you haven’t done before. Or with your Husband. Or with your own Mother. Or, perhaps, even yourself.

Don’t wait.

You can leave your condolences on 10TV’s website. Donations may be made in her honor at Nationwide Children’s Hospital, The Columbus Zoo & Aquarium, or the Stephanie Spelman Fund for Breast Cancer Research.

The Fire Family lifts their prayers up for Heather’s husband, two young children and other family and friends at this very difficult time. May peace and light somehow be found in the darkness.

Oct 012008
 

I was up far too late last night (and into today) while updating the blog. We are officially Pink for October. I went with a more subtle look, having the pink as my accents instead of smacking you in the face with pink. We did that last year, right after Mom’s diagnosis, and this year I just felt the need to tone it down a little. Why?

It’s been a trying year. And my Mom is healthy at this point. But we’re all so deeply changed. And perhaps I want to focus on some of those inner changes this month than the outward changes. I’ll be writing throughout this month about breast cancer, issues for families and how we managed to cope with my Mom’s diagnosis, surgeries and recovery. It’s not always easy for me to find the words to discuss everything but, well, words are my business. I’ll find them somehow.

If you are already Pink for October, don’t forget to link your site. Also! Leave a comment here so I can hop over and gaze upon your awesomeness. I’ve also turned my twitter pink. (Feel free to add me.) What else have you turned pink? I ran out of energy before I hit my MySpace and, thankfully, my hair.

And! Our winner of the Pink for October giveaway was Andy of Today’s The Day! She’s one of my favorite bloggers and I was happy when the lucky number five popped up in our results. If you need some help finding some pink backgrounds and the like, don’t hesitate to ask.