Oh, gosh. It’s so hard for me to keep a secret. It’s even harder for BigBrother to keep one but I’d like to say that we all made it through the week without spilling the beans. Or the candy, as it were. We took this idea from AlphaMom, originally found at Living Locurto, and made FireDad a super hero box. It’s filled with X-ray Vision Drops, Hero Juice, a Secret Identity Bar and other great little bits of awesomeness.

Hero Box

BigBrother and LittleBrother helped purchase everything, some of which came from Hobby Lobby, some of which came from Kroger. I also learned that you have to be eighteen to purchase spray glue. Yes, I got carded. Yes, I’m proud of that fact. The boys helped cut out the labels, printed on our snazzy Kodak printer. They also helped me glue the paper towel to my thumbnail. Win.

FireDad liked it.

Opening

He’s been nomming on some X-Ray Vision Drops (lemon drops) and shooting me suggestive glances for the past half hour. I’m deeply amused.

I attempted to get a good photo of FireDad with TheBrothers but it didn’t quite work.

NO!

Then again, I think that’s absolutely hilarious. It’s a keeper.

Happy Father’s Day.

Yesterday’s last day of school extravaganza went well. Despite my Mommy Nostalgia that my oldest boy grew so much in one school year, we really had a nice day.

The crafts for BigBrother’s teachers were finished and wrapped in time to be taken to school in the morning. I originally found the craft idea at Living Locurto which linked me to a post at Testosterone Times Three. I got the square shadowbox frames at Walmart ($8) and already had one pack of new crayons so I just grabbed one more pack of 24 count Crayola crayons ($1.31) and a bottle of craft glue ($1.30). I did all of the cutting myself with my big butcher knife. BigBrother helped me with some gluing after I figured out the template. I let them dry overnight. His teachers loved them and they are hanging them in the classroom. I’ll show them again because this Non-Crafty Mom feels pretty darn proud of herself.

Craft!

When BigBrother got home from school, he got to open his presents. I normally do a puzzle and a book but had been wanting to do a game this year as they’re big into board games and the like this year. They’ve been playing Connect 4 at my mother-in-law’s house for the past few months and so I thought I’d grab it for our house seeing as how they love it. My last minute procrastination paid off as when I stopped to pick it up they had the Toy Story 3 version! Now, two weeks ago, they didn’t have that version in the store as I had price checked the game that week. If we had already owned Connect 4, I wouldn’t be buying a new favorite-movie themed one but seeing as how I was buying it anyway, I couldn’t resist! It was a big, big hit. His favorite game and Toy Story? Mommy win.

FTW!

Playing

The book that he got was also of the Toy Story variety and I’ll have a rant about that tomorrow.

We also had rainbow tie-dye cupcakes to celebrate a year of fantastic learning and growth and a kick off to our Super Summer! Instead of making my normal rainbow cake, I decided to make some rainbow cupcakes. I also decided to go with pre-packaged cake mix again due to the last minute nature of everything. I separated the mix into five bowls and LittleBrother helped me color each bowl a different color: red, blue, yellow, green and violet. I put a spoonful of each color in the cupcake wrapper, leaving them uneven and kind of “messy” for my taste. Topped off with red, we put them in the oven. As per usual, I used Wilton icing dye to get the bright colors. Out of the oven they looked perfect.

Out of the Oven

And the boys loved them.

Messy Mouth

Cupcake Mustache

And I sacrificed not one but two in the name of art again.

Cupcake Bokeh

Wrapper Love

Basically, it was a great day for us. In fact, the boys had such a lovely day, despite the rain, that they went straight to sleep and started off our Super Summer on a fabulous note and slept clear until 7:40 this morning. I think that deserves celebration with another cupcake, don’t you agree?

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I’ve mentioned it time and time again here on the blog: I’m not a crafty person. But I wanted to do something crafty with the boys. A few weeks ago, BlogHer wrote about and linked up various (great) rainbow cakes. I immediately loved the one at SweetNicks. (I also immediately became a subscriber to that blog!) I saved it for a fun food craft to do after we got back from camp.

And here’s our rainbow cake experience.

I followed SweetNick’s advice and went with the Pillsbury cake mix. It took me two trips to The Store That Has Everything from Spray Paint to Food Coloring to find the Wilton’s Icing Coloring. Here’s my tip: It’s not in the “normal” baking aisle. It’s in the “crafting” baking aisle near the wedding stuff. Of course, as they just remodeled our store, it took me awhile to even find this aisle on my second trip after being informed I could most likely find what I was looking for by my fellow tweeple. (Thanks, all!) I also went with premade frosting/icing because I didn’t want to ruin the cake. I switched brands and went with Betty Crocker’s Whipped “Fluffy White” frosting because it is smooth. I used almost all of two jars to ice this six layer monstrosity.

Getting Ready

(That’s what the Wilton’s Icing Coloring looks like so you know what you are searching for in the craft baking aisle. I still maintain that baking things should be in the baking aisle in the food section. But apparently this makes too much sense.)

The point of doing this edible craft, after all, was to let the boys help. And they did. They helped do the initial stirring, laughed as I used the mixer and helped put the coloring in each of the bowls. Here’s another tip: when they say that you don’t need a lot of each color, they’re correct. A toothpick dip in each was all I needed for all but the red. The red needed three dips. The boys loved watching the colors appear. I loved watching their faces light up.

Helping

Colors

As the cakes were cooling, we went outside to play. And my two loving sons, one with purple still on his face, had a loving moment. I live for these moments.

Hugs

I’ll be honest. I didn’t let them stack or ice the cake with me. I had enough difficulty and I don’t regret this decision. Starting with purple on the bottom (next to my plum Fiestaware), I iced in between each layer. The bad news about my baking is that since I made my red layer last, there was a little extra batter in that baking pan. However, I didn’t check that cake separately when the others were done. As such, the top of the red layer deflated. I figured this would be okay as the red layer was the top layer. After I stacked them all the way to the top, I just added extra icing in the deflated hole. No one was the wiser. Except that I just told the whole Internet. Hmm. Anyway, you saw this picture on Wednesday but it belongs here as well. This was after the stacking just before I started icing around the sides.

Icing

The next day, the boys woke to a six layer iced cake sitting in the middle of our kitchen table. And they didn’t touch it. We had friends over for a playdate and cut the cake. It was beautiful.

First Cut

First Cut

Cut

And BigBrother was happy about it.

WIN!

I’ve been asked, umpteen billion times, why I made a rainbow cake, why I baked a cake, why why why. Doesn’t anyone just bake a cake for no reason? I mean, I’m honestly not the biggest fan of cake. I prefer pie. But this Pillsbury mix with the pudding in it? That’s some soft, moist, delicious cake. And so, my reason for baking this cake with my sons is that I wanted to do something fun, something different with them. We had a good time.

And I got to have a healthy breakfast of coffee and cake the next morning. The coffee makes it a legitimate breakfast, right?

Breakfast

I’m glad I decided to go ahead and do this edible craft with my kids. Not only did we enjoy making it, we enjoyed sharing it with friends. Even if they did make fun of me for making a cake for “no reason” other than something to do. Sure beats normal crafts for us!

I had some Mommy Guilt going on last week. Being the end of the month, I had some important deadlines to hit and found myself overwhelmed with work at various points in time. Being overwhelmed with work usually leaves less time for playing, reading and the general fun sides of parenting than I prefer. But, the work had to get done.

And so, the Mommy Guilt started to creep in. I started thinking of all the things I could have been doing other than working. I could have been cleaning my house. Or baking cookies with BigBrother. Or doing puzzles with LittleBrother. (Playing outside wasn’t an option as it was nasty all week. At least I had that in my favor.)

And then I started thinking about all the things that Moms should do with their kids. You know, things that I simply have no desire to do. Mainly crafts. I’ve written about crafts before and how BigBrother seems to inherited my lack of a crafting gene. I just don’t really like crafts. I understand their purpose. I do like that they take up time. I do like that children gain tactile skills and learn other things when doing crafts. But I hate them. It figures, then, that while I was lamenting over things that I wanted to be doing with the boys (practicing t-ball, doing puzzles, coloring (which is not the same as crafting), running through fields of flowers), I was also feeling guilty for not doing things that I didn’t even want to do.

I was still feeling guilty when I went to a Dos de Mayo party at my friend Mandy’s house on Saturday evening. (What? You don’t know about Dos de Mayo? It’s what you do when Cinco de Mayo falls on a Tuesday and you know that there’s no way you’re staying up past bedtime on a weeknight.) Mandy had planned a little sombrero craft with a paper cup, a little paper plate, fuzzy crafting balls and glue. After the kids finished drowning their craft in glue, we sat back down at the table and someone let it slip.

“I hate crafts.”

I don’t remember who said it first but it’s like the heavens opened and sun shone down upon that table out in the backyard. Angels sang. Trumpets sounded. And then another friend of ours said, “Me too.” I think my jaw dropped before I admitted the same thing (and admitted that I was planning on blogging about feeling like a bad mom for not enjoying crafts this week). Of course, the husbands among us didn’t understand why we did them if we didn’t like them but, well, I can assure you that FireDad doesn’t enjoy them either. So, someone has to do it. We talked about it for a few minutes; those reasons that we do crafts with our children even though we really don’t enjoy the process.

And I felt like less of a Bad Mom.

This week, thus far, I have done some things that I prefer doing with the boys. We’ve finally made it through our pile of new books. We played some games. We sang and danced to make videos on the webcam. And I don’t think we’ll do any crafts this week. I’m not good at them. I don’t enjoy them. And really, there are other ways to learn. Maybe we’ll start doing young learning science experiments or something with letters. You know, things that I’m good at and things that I enjoy.

But I’m apparently not a Bad Mom for disliking crafts. (I’m also not a Bad Mom because my house is messy!) Hooray!

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