Dec 272010
 

If you were a reader in 2008, you might know what I’m about to blog about. If not, let me explain briefly.

In the early 90′s, my parents gave my brother a magical Christmas gift. Actually, Santa gave him the gift. He went to sleep in his bed and woke up in an amazing new bunk bed (on the bottom bunk as no one wanted him to fall out and break a bone). I helped pull that off as I’m eight years older and was already aware of Santa’s non-existence. FireDad and I decided to carry that over to our children. We did so with BigBrother in 2008; he went to bed in his toddler bed and woke up in a twin bed featuring a Very Hungry Caterpillar bed set. And this Christmas, LittleBrother got his magic.

After my initial panic that FireDad would be at work and I’d have to do it all myself, I began to panic that maybe it wouldn’t work with LittleBrother. They’re both great sleepers, but of the two, LittleBrother wakes more frequently and sleeps lighter than his older brother. The boys went to bed around 8:30, and I waited until 10:00pm to call FireDad home from the fire department to help. I wanted to make sure he was asleep when we transferred him to our room and built the bed in his room.

He stayed asleep during transfer. And slept through banging on walls. And me stepping on the bed frame in bare feet and muffling a yelp. And the repeated sounds of feet up and down the stairs. And our voices — quiet, but voices all the same. And the sounds of packaging being torn off of box springs and mattresses and mattress covers and so on. And he didn’t hear my camera snapping, snapping, snapping across the hall.

Bed!
[Ignore the lack of bed skirt. Someone, ahem, forgot!]

And he slept through the transfer back to his — new! — bed.

And he slept all night.

And he slept and slept and slept.

He didn’t even wake up when my alarm went off three times because I kept pressing snooze as I went to bed at 1:00 and the Spanish Buzz alarm on my phone started going off at 5:30am. Yawn. He didn’t wake up when I showered and dropped the shampoo in the shower. Or when I dried my hair — which woke up BigBrother. He didn’t wake up when I set BigBrother in our bedroom in front of the TV with very firm directions not to walk down the hall to the living room. He didn’t wake up when FireDad pulled in the driveway, home from his 24 hour shift at the fire department.

In fact, we had to wake the child up. On Christmas morning. What a silly kid.

Sleepy Booey

He stretched. And sat up. And climbed out of bed. And kind of stood there, facing away from the bed, blinking as if he was thinking, “Wait, did I just climb out of bed?” And he turned around.

Climbing Back In

He was definitely pleased. As was BigBrother — both that his little brother got a Big Boy Bed and that Santa is so entirely awesome that he can magic a bed under you while you’re asleep. They exchanged Santa bed stories while FireDad and I stood by and smiled the smile of parents who pulled it off.

Elf Brothers

We eventually made our way to the living room and opened presents and went about our day. But let me tell you, LittleBrother is pleased with his Big Boy Bed. And I’m so pleased that we passed a family tradition on to both of our sons. I will treasure the memories of their smiles, their awe and wonder, their joy for the rest of my days. Someday, when they learn that Santa isn’t real and put two-and-two together that their Mom and Dad managed to pull off the magic without the help of the bearded white guy, I will put those faces of confusion, awe and amazement in my mental photograph box as well.

I hope your Christmas was just as magical. Though I do have to ask: Why are the boys’ beds more comfortable than ours?

Dec 272008
 

Now that we have crawled out from under this toy mountain, I have a magical story to tell you.

BigBrother fell asleep at church during Christmas Eve service. He did get to hear me sing but fell asleep shortly thereafter. Upon arriving home, he very sleepily unwrapped his Christmas pajamas, gave kisses, said prayers and went to sleep in his wooden toddler bed. He promptly fell asleep; that deep, deep sleep of a preschooler who had a very long day.

While he was sleeping, some magic took place. More on that in a moment.

On Christmas morning, FireDad and I heard BigBrother leave his room, go to the bathroom and then he came into our room. He was a  bit quieter than usual which, to be honest, is quite unusual for the kid. Something about inheriting my genes. And so we started to ask him questions.

FireMom: Was something different about your bedroom, BigBrother?
BigBrother: Yeeeeeees, my bed was different!

What had Santa done? We then talked about his bed for a few minutes before all traipsing into his room to see what exactly was different.

There we found a twin bed covered with a Very Hungry Caterpillar (his favorite book) bed set. He started talking about Santa seeing as how there was a candy cane taped to the head board. (In the Fire Family household, Santa doesn’t wrap his presents but merely tapes a candy can to them so they can be seen against other presents.) LittleBrother then let us know that he was awake and we brought him in to inspect the new bed.

And, sure, the magic involved moving a sleeping child into his parent’s room, quietly removing a toddler bed that didn’t quite fit through the door, quietly building a bed frame in the room, quietly cussing when you stub your toe, sitting on every piece that FireDad needs, smiling at the finished product, snapping some pictures and then moving the deep-sleeping child back to his new bed, pushing him near the wall and praying he doesn’t fall out. It was quite a bit of work.

But the look on his face? Pure magic.

What a perfect Christmas memory.

(I’ll be honest. I did not come up with this idea myself. My parents did this for my brother when he moved to his big bed that Christmas. I remember, all too well, the look of amazement on his face. and, to be honest, it doesn’t look all that different than BigBrother’s amazed face considering how much my brother and I resemble each other. Feel free to steal the idea for next year.)